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my sil has not been able to have a baby after neing married for some years, so i sympathize. However, my mil has been constantly pushing my son over to her, trying to create some kind of bond between them i feel. Family events, i dont get to hold him much to show him off, he almost immediately gets taken out of my hands by my parents in law, then handed over to my sis in law. Which would last for hours or until he cries. I sit with an emoty stroller by my side, which makes me kinda sad. And my parents in law almost oftentimes talk to my son abt her, keep mentioning her basically. And then, they had a big blowup when my husband tells them to inform me when taking him out of the house (they live with us), even just to take him out to the park, as i kinda will be like "hey, where’s my baby?" and then feel kinda upset., like the rug was pulled out frm under me, as i would like to know where he is at all times, and even more upset that they just let my sis in law take him downstairs without telling me. And even when they did ask me, when sis in law wanted to take him downstairs, she and her husband, without my knowledge, also drove him around a short distance. They had also wanted to drive him to someplace for a short while, but he is v attached to me so i am afraid he would cry. To that, they thought of FIL, whom he is reasonably ok with, to come along. No extention of invitation to the mother? Anyway, just didnt like him being driving distance-far from me, which has never been done before. They didnt even ask me directly, just mediated through my mil. Whom is a domineering character, so they mostly look to her for permission with my baby, or carry out her suggestions made to them like abt taking my baby out nearby. All of which make me quite upset, I dont know. Am i overreacting?
baby is 1 yr old

Obviously this is hard to "diagnose" per say, by a complete stranger and ultimately hard to know for sure unless a person proclaims their sexuality to you directly; however, my husband of five years recently told me he is questioning his sexuality and although he admits to being attracted to men, says he is not gay.
I have several issues with this. First of all I am not sure why he would tell me this unless he wanted to bring a man into our bedroom, become swingers, etc. or if he really was gay and was sort of ‘feeling me out’ to see how I might react to such news.
Another thing, he told me years ago that he was molested as a child by a gay uncle (who later died of Aids). After his uncle passed away in 2006 he told his parents that he was molested. Now, years later, he got us all together to tell us he had made that up. This perplexes me further because I now think either he regrets telling people he was molested in the first place and wants to sweep it under the rug or he wanted an "excuse" to be gay and thought lying about being molested might somehow make being gay not "his fault".
About him:
He is not obviously gay in any way– not extremely feminine etc., but he is very particular about how he dresses, grooms himself etc. He does not like kinky sex of any kind and if anything would be extremely offended if I ever wanted to do anything out of the ordinary of a typical male/female marriage in our sex life (or to him, specifically). His family is extremely homophobic and feels like it is wrong both morally, religiously and in any other way to be homosexual. They almost view homosexuals as monsters and act as if you can "catch" homosexuality by hanging out with gay people. I, on the other hand, have always been extremely outspoken about my support of equal rights for gays and with the fact that I feel people are born gay and that it is not a choice.
I’m not sure what else to include in this but I am looking for any stories or advice from either gay men, married men, or women who have been in or are in similar situations. Hell, any advice at all from anyone. I just want to know what to do/how to go about this. We have a five year old daughter which only complicates this situation further.
He says that while he is attracted to men, he is not gay nor does he ever want to act on those feelings. He said he has never and would never be with another male sexually and that he likes women too and is still very attracted to me and does not want a divorce.
I told him he needed to see a counselor and maybe confide in a gay male friend and ask how they felt before they came out. I’m not sure what else to do but I could use any advice anyone has to share! Please!
Thanks!

*NOTE : This is not a real plan to kill my parents, just something to do when I’m bored, something to perfect and be proud about.

I think I have a way to murder my parents and get away with it. I live in a 3 story house and my room is in the attic, with a window facing the east. The good part about my window is every winter it gets really strong and average length ice sickles hanging on it. Now, I’ll wear two pair of socks on my feet to cover my foot steps into their room, with two ice sickles in my hands, and holding them in glove so they don’t melt very quickly. I will gently nudge my mother awake and stab her in the eye with the ice sickle. If done right I should be able to hit the brain, ending her life very quickly. My father is a deep sleeper, so it shouldn’t wake him, and I’ll do the same with him. I will then steal my dads truck with my parents in the bed, wrapped in a tarp and a rug. I will drive about 20 miles to this old abandoned farm that has a very large and very deep river running along the edge of the property, attach two – three cinder blocks to the ends of the rug, then dump the bodies. I will then drive to a car wash, wash out any blood from the bed of the truck that may have leaked, go home, take a shower, then I will then take all of the sheets, throw them in the bed of the truck, and drive out to some no-where road, and burn them away from the road. After this is all said and done, I will pull out their good sheets, make the bed, and then mess it up again like they left in a hurry. Go upstairs to my room, and go to sleep.
I have done the math, my parents have enough money for me to live on a 0 a week basis for almost 4 years, plus after two I can cash in trust funds, getting another 15 months added on to my life. I have taken into account bills and other things, and they will be used at a minimum.

So, what do you think, Think I can kill my parents and live happily in my big house with my Xbox?

So I just painted my walls a bright teal. I want new bedding and curtains to go with it, but it had to be cheap because my parents dont really want to buy me new stuff. I also want a teal rug but I can’t find any rugs that I can even afford. Do you also have any suggestions for a white table lamp? And the last thing is do you know where I could find a set of white picture frames? Any help or decorating ideas would be helpful.

My parents bought this rug ages ago and I want to know what it says lol. I dont even know what language it is, and I wasnt sure what way up it was meant to go so I took a picture from both ways.
Thanks!
http://www.flickr.com/photos/32275250@N06/ (please ignore the other photos lol)

I have wanted a pet snake since i was about 8. but my parents say that if i get one then i need 2 so they can keep eachother company. My parents are all for it as long as i get money for my own reptile licence. I know i can get a class one coz im 15. They said that if i help them with money they will help me get an elclosure for them (probably in my room).

thanks, just need to know where i can buy 2 that arnt sibling xx

ok so its pretty much about someone that doesnt want to go to law school anymore because he belongs somewhere else. as in career wise.

ok so here it is

This was it. I have to tell them, it was now or never, I thought to myself. Worried about what the outcome might be I reach for the doorknob and walk towards the family room. Each step I could hear the timber floor squealing as if they are warning me of what I am yet to do. The family room shared some of my fondest memories, my first steps along the soft and fluffy white rug that almost hugged my little toes, as I would walk over it. The countless sleepovers, staying up on the cold brown leather couch eating chips and candy until we would feel sick and gossiping until the sun came shining through the large white framed windows. However, my fondest memory ever would have to be the day I told my parents that I got into law school. I have never seen them so happy before, each of their grins from ear to ear and for the first time in thirty years, my dad walked without the help of his walking stick, it was all they talked about for months. And now I was about to shatter all their dreams. Am I a thief? Here I am now walking towards them and asking if I could steal, their dream of having of be becoming a lawyer. How could I do it? What are the right words? Is there any right words?
Mamma Papa, I have something to tell you. Dad grabbed my hand his cold and wrinkly soft skin pulled me down next to him

I have researched and researched and bought 3 vacuum cleansers over the past 6 months. From Kenmore canister vac to Dirt Devil Cyclonic Upright. I have all hardwood floors in my home w/ one room being linoleum and only 2 large area rugs. All the vacuums I bought just threw the dirt out the back. Well, I stopped at my parents home tonight, and low and behold there was a Kirby salesman there. After a complete demonstration of what all it could do…I bought it (ouch it was ,000!) I think I am nuts. It has the hardwood floor attachment and the shampooer attachment and has a lifetime warranty. Ok, now my question is this: Do any of you guys own a Kirby Sentria, and if so, do you like how it works and have any reviews you can give me? Thanks!!

My parents just got a new carpet because she was peeing on the one we used to have. Now she is peeing on the new carpet and my brothers carpet. My mom might put the cat to sleep but i don’t want her to. The cats only 14 years old is that the right age. I don’t want to buy anything tho. please help me!!

My sister is a drug addict. She has been for over 5 years. She was raped while she was "high" on drugs and now has a son. She takes her son with her when she goes and buys drugs. She lives with our parents. She also has now stolen over ,000 from our Grandmother, and our Grandmother is not going to press charges. They think it is okay to sweep this under the rug. But I’m fed up. I want to call CPS on her or something. What can I do?

I’m trying to fin something to buy my parents for christmas and I’m stuck.
However, there bathroom isn’t themed at all. It’s a mixture of blues, flowers, water animals, pearl white, off-yellow, etc.
So would it be ok to buy them a theme for their bathroom like a shower curton, toilet seat, toothbrush holder, floor rug, etc. or is the thought of pulling a toilet seat out as a christmas present just not good?

Thanks for you help…

I have a 7 month old, girl Shih Tzu. Ive been trying to potty train her but nothing is working! We got her 3 months ago and have been using bells and saying good girl! and if she pees on the carpet we yell at her and clap our hands then take her outside. But she still wants to go inside. We take her out alot through out the day. The only time i crate her is at night, but if we leave we put her in a little fence we keep in the kitchen. She uses one rug for peeing and a different rug for pooping. Both the carpets are really expensive so my mom would never move them.(We have wood floors). I know i shouldnt give up because that would just screw everything up, but i fell like shes never going to learn! Weve taken classes and its been 3 months. My dad keeps threatening that he will give her away because she goes to the bathroom in the house but he would never because hes in love with her. But still. I just want her to be potty trained already so i dont have to be nervous about my parents yelling at me for her accidents! HELP! I need new ideas and tips because the old ones arnt working anymore. Thanks!
She knows how to hold her blatter in her crate.. its just in the house that she doesnt know how to.

Well as i said above ^^ My two year old sister got into my paints and It isn’t just any paint, Its outdoor paint. And yes, she chose the worst color. Black. I am trying to gt it out so my parents don’t have to buy a whole new carpet. Does anyone know any way to get that out? I have tried nail polish remover, windex, bleach, and a asty combination of all three.Does anyone know anything I could use???

my 1 year old dwarf rabbit chewed about 4 small holes in my carpet. They’re kinda noticable because she would go under furniture and chew them. Anyways were moving out of the brand new house in a year. I’m only 14 and I don’t know if it’s possible at all to be able to buy small price of carpet onlin I’d have to tell by parents and gave the carpet ripped up. By the way, this happened 5 months ago and they still don’t know. What should I do?