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I need a man's opinion… i am a mid 20s lady.?

Looking for info on rugs safavieh, home dynamix rugs, oriental area rug, gabbeh persian rugs and more?

I have been in a relationship with this man for a total of 4 years with a 6 month break in between. I’m in love, he says he’s in love and couldn’t live without me. And wants to grow old together. That’s nice, the feeling is mutual. We get along great with the occasional argument. He is not confrontational, and likes to sweep everything under the rug & pretend it isn’t there. Me, on the other hand, if there’s a problem, flipping fix it and move on. I can apparently deal with that since I’ve done it 4 so long now. Long story short… I would like to get married no later than 28ish and b done with kids by 30. 28 is too soon for him(3 1/2 yrs). I told him I refuse to still "date" wen I’m 35. (we have our separate places). He already said he wants only me no1 else. So wats the problem? Can a man let me in on his mind set? Is there something I should know? Am I missing something?

If I were to file bankruptcy, Does an inspector come around to confirm ALL of my belongings?

Seriously.. that could take a few weeks! They want "ebay" or Craig’s List" values for everything. Like the rug I bought in Mexico for …A blanket that my 90 year old grand mother made me is priceless…

How is my Indian story so far?

it’s called: Where the Buffalo’s Roam!

here it is!

The cool air woke me up, I walked out side the cold air rushed on my face and danced through my long black braided hair.

I pressed my feet into the ground like I was one of the green ash trees soaring high into the sky and whirled through the whimsical clouds and warmed my crooked branches by the sun.

I heard large drums and horns muffling from beyond with a slight gun shot in the mix. The whinnying of horses and guns over powered the pure state I was just in, I felt a hand wrap around my wrist I went to flee the force battled against me till I turned around. My father was dragging me back into the safe tipi saying a small Cherokee prayer

"As I walk the trail of life in the fear of the wind and rain, grant O Great Spirit that I may always walk like a man"

I repeated this in my head "Unetlvnvhi emenv" which means God Amen in Cherokee. He placed me next to my younger brother and mumbled something under his breath as he placed on his war head dress, placed on the make up, and thumped on to the plains as his shadows grew larger but his figure grew smaller and smaller.

My younger brother’s dark eyes met with mine as he dug his feet into the elk skin rug and a tear ran down his soft tanned skin.

"Aponi, I’m scared what will happen?" he looked up.

"Shh, it’s okay. No matter what happens we have each other." I held my necklace and ripped it off I held it in my hand and turned to my brother.

"Omar, take this. I made it before you were born, Mama and I made it. She said the buffalo is strong and powerful it will help you get through everything" I passed him the buffalo tooth necklace. I walked over to the war make up and placed some on my face. I looked over at my brother and said

"Unetlvnvhi" and grabbed my spear as I walked out Omar yelled over

"Emenv" he gripped onto his necklace. I turned around and headed out the tipi.

I headed out to the plains, the war still ringing on I managed to get into the battle until a blur rushed over my head and I dug my spear into the first enemy I saw, war cries and wound screams filled the air the large body fell in front of me I pulled my blood soaked spear from the body and ran to my next victim. A horse stopped in front of me a white man said some words I did not understand and then whipped me I let out a scream then he whipped me again. He yelled at me I felt the warm spit on my face as he threw me into a guys arms who held me tight and dragged me off I fought with him cursing him in Cherokee another harsh slap whipped on my face I backed down and got carried on through the windy god forsaken plains.

what do you think so far?

Can my friend sue me for killing her cat when it was an accident?

My stupid friend’s cat died while she was in Jamaica messing around with black guys. I told her I would go down to her apartment and take of it while she was gone. She has the tackiest apartment ever. Like a cheetah print rug and dumb pictures of like…kittens with bubbles floating around. Oh my God and her Kitchen appliances are not even stainless steal. She has like the avocado color stuff. I mean what a loser. Totally poor. Anyhow, her cat was old. I did go down and feed it once, but it needed a pill and she never told me I would have to use my hand to open its mouth and try and jam it in. That ugly cat had huge fangs and there was no way. I laid the pill out for it on a napkin- used peanut butter on it, but it refused the pill. Kind of like "I’m too good for a pill" . The cat put on lots of airs and graces and I was not about to get bit and get rabbis and worms and stuff. So anyway, the thing croaked and she calls me screaming and crying- and I told her that I did not know it wouldn’t eat it’s pill. She is threatening to sue me now. Can she sue me? She won’t get one red cent. Mr Bojangles

I filed a complaint against a Irvine Police officer, the Sergeant is trying to set up a meeting to talk about?

I filed a complaint against a asshole cop who harrassed my 12 year old daughter at school, it was regarding an alledged email to another girl who said it was my daughter who sent it.My daughter denied that she had done it and there was no proof she had sent the emails.She was pulled out of class by security officer and taken to the office where a police offer and Vice Principle D___K,Head was waiting.They asked her did you send the emials you replied no,after about 5 minutes she was crying they kept telling her"we know you did it so just admit it: this went on for 3 hours…..at 1 point because she was crying the whole time they told her to sit outside of the office to calm down and to let them know when she was ready to tell the truth!The police officer searched her and all her possesions, Back pack, shoes etc….When we picked my daughter up from school she was in totla shock and scared to go back to school.I called the Vice Principle D___Head and asked what had happened and why we were not advised of the interrogation,The VP said that they did not have to notify me about it and I should try and focus on the big propblen at hand, he continued to tell me that my daughter was the biggest bully in the school since he has been a vice principle and that the police officer and the school has made there decision that my daughter would be suspened for 5 days.The next day the VP of the school called said that my daughter would only be suspened for 3 days, at that point we asked if my daughter can transfer to another school.We were told that we could meet to discuss the transfer in about a week.We showed up to the meeting to start the transfer process,then they told us that we were not here to discuss a transfer, we are her because the VP recommenede that my daughter be expulled form the whole school district !! My daughter has never been arrested or suspened or anything close . What can I do ? I filed a coplaint against the officer, and the Sergeant wants my daughter and I to meet with him alone.All I read is that the Supervisors of the officers is there to cover and protect his own officers and to push the matter under the rug.Since the complaint the officer had given my daughter a ticket for having a lighter after ilegally searching her across the street from our home the other to kids who were there had 2 lighters and were not given a ticket,the officer while interrogating some other kids going thriugh there text messages on there phones saw my daughters name and asked the boy , how do you know this girl, he replied she goes to my school, he then told her ‘you should find better friends. please help on what to do know???? The cop is a jerk and the VP is much worse.I am trying to handle this legally for now.

How Do I effectively train my daschund puppy?

I got a daschund puppy from a pet store when he was 6 mos old, they told me that he had never seen the outside(which was awful) He is now about 10 months old and I have had the HARDEST time trying to house break him. I tried the crate training, by putting him in there when me or my boyfriend were not home, but he yelps and cries so loud that I have had animal control called on me. I take him out as often as can usually Twice b4 I go to work in the Morning and my boyfriend takes him out right after he gets out of work and throughout the rest of the day. we take him for long walks around the blocks and let hm stop and sniff wherever his nose brings him and nothing… maybe a Little "piddle" and that’s it, and the min. we get back to the house he pees on the rugs or my Kitchen floor or wherever?? I can’t Seem to effectively potty Train my puppy… and I fear that it’s getting too late… I have tried the puppy pads too and he won’t go on them or near them??

I also am having a hard time discipline him when he does something naughty, I use the crate as his "timeout" and I will usually leave him in there until he stops whining and crying to get out, but it’s not working, still have chewed shoes, carpets,and anything else he wants to chew-up, and he won’t leave my cat alone… I need some help… I want to take him to obedience classes but I don’t have the money to do so.. if anyone can give me some helpful pointers that would be awesome!!! Thank you!

Who do you agree with? Me or my sister?

Ever since Friday, my mom has been letting her boyfriend stay with us. And he hasn’t the best guest since he got here! He gave my mom 0 to help out with the move (we’re moving soon), but I believes he thinks that’s an excuse to be a bad house guest. He’s always complaining and he never helps out around the house. All he does eat up our food (and then goes out to buy food of his own) and watch TV and he has the TV up very loud, even at night, when people are trying to sleep. My mom’s keys to the new house have also disappeared and I think he took them (she has copies, but that still doesn’t make it right). He won’t admit it, of course, but I didn’t touch them, my mom didn’t move them from her purse and my sister didn’t touch them either. So who took them? He shows his friends and his relatives where we’re moving to, but he’s not going to live with us, my mom says. He’s had the fan on every night and the window open since he got here, freezing my mom, who hasn’t been able to sleep because of it. And when my mom got up to take a shower (an hour ago), he went ahead of her when she was about to get in. I think that’s very inconsiderate. My mom was nice enough to give him somewhere to live and he doesn’t appreciate it. He says he works hard and is always tired. Well, so does my mom and she’s tired too, but she doesn’t act like she has no consideration for others! My mom is sick of him and so am I! If my mom throws him out, he’ll be homeless (kind of. He just doesn’t want to ask his friends or his relatives.). But I don’t care anymore and I hope my mom doesn’t either. That’s not how you treat who lets you live in their home. She doesn’t treat him like that! Why should he treat her that way?

My sister, on the other hand, thinks he should still stay, simply because he’ll have no place to live if my mom puts him out. He’s "Daddy" to my sister and that’s the only reason she’s defending him. She says it wouldn’t be right to let him wander the streets. So I guess that means it’s right to let him treat our mom like she’s a rug. And my sister is picking up his behavior. She’s starting to act up with him around because he’ll defend her from our mother. She’s being just about as inconsiderate towards our mom as he is to her, and me as well.

Who do you agree with here? Me or my sister? By the way, I’m 15 and my sister is 11 (12 in July), if anyone is going to ask.
The boyfriend is my mom’s, not my sister’s!

Getting an apartment with the bf! I'd this too much to spend for furniture + appliances?

Ok so living room-
48" tv 890$
Stand for tv 12$
3 piece couch set from ikea 1220$
Wall decorations 80$
As for DVD player and cd player I already have them as well as ps3

Kitchen-
36 piece cutlery and utensils 30$
Knive holder plus 4 knives 20$
3 piece glass pans for oven 17$
Cuisin art set (has blender, mixer..etc..) 90$
Wall decorations 23$
Oven mitts 2$

Bathroom-
Matching rug+towls+hand towels and shower curtain 12$
Trisha holder etc..2$
Decorations 12$

for bdroom and office I need to figure it out :\ haha and if there is anything that I need or don’t need! Please tell me!! Thanks!

I am looking for a beaded curtain with pale or lemon yellow acrylic beads (solid-no pattern). Any leads?

I have tried all of the online resources, including places like Target, Walmart, J.C. Penney, Spencer’s Gifts. The online stores have solid beaded curtains but not in yellow. There is one that has circles and is in a "hippy type/60′s style". But I am looking for a more "Victorian type or middle-eastern type" door curtain. I am going to use it outdoors to separate my garden from the deck. I have a mad mad (outdoor rug) in blue, white, and yellow. I would like to continue this them with yellow as my accent color and my outdoor furniture is also yellow. Thanks for any help.

A legal question for anyone who has been in the Marines or other branches?

Hello there,

My husband is in a whole mess of trouble and we cannot see a way out. You should know his EAS date was January 7th. The Marines have him on legal hold awaiting a supposed court marshall.

7 months ago my husband was stopped at the front gate of our base and searched. He was found to have one half narcotic pill that was not prescribed to him (he did not fail the drug test after) and 2 guns. One was a legally kept and owned shotgun registered on base. The second was an unregistred loaded hand gun under his seat in a container. Upon speaking the company commander he told me in september "no punishment would got outside of the scope of November"
November passed and nothing happend. We thought they were just going to sweep it under the rug because it was november and he was to leave in January.

5 months passed and no one mentioned it again. Not so much as a whisper. On Jaunaury 6th the day before his EAS they told him he was being extended one month for failure to follow proper check out procedure. Two or three days later they told him he was being put on hold and could be in the Marines up to 6 more months waiting for a court marshall for the guns 5 months before.

It is now March 3rd, he has not been presented with a single sheet of paper work that states what he is being charged with. We had a friend look into their "system" whatever that means, and found NO charges against my husband om record ( we were told this is illegal)

The only information we have is;
- My husband went to see the Judge advocate, and he was told he should at least have paper work.
the Judge called his Company office and told them to get his paperwork. That was a month and a half ago and still no paper work
- he is being charged with something
- we don’t know when we can leave
- there are no charges against him
- he has received no paper work
- no one even talks about it.
- he has been put in the Ad sep company
- we cannot seek the adive of lawyers on base (or off) because the do not deal with criminal cases

I have tried, in vain to contact our family readiness officer, and the chaplin for advice but my calls were never returned.

I was told, it is illegal for the military to put you on legal hold to investiagte. Is this true? Does anyone know anything about this or have any advice? I just want to go home

Thank you for your service!

Hollister Themed Room…I need opinions!?

I have decided i’d like to redo my bedroom in the early part of 2009. I have money saved up *around 300 bucks*

My room has high ceilings 9.5 ft, and is 10.5 x 11.5 (small but thats because we had a bathroom put in on that level.

My ideas——–I’m trying for a hollister/beach feel

Walls: a dark, rich brown-chocolate color
Trim, door, window trim-pale blue color *like hollister floor*
Dresser and bookshelf are going to be painted a white/pale blue color
Bedspread and pillows-white maybe
and then a leafy plant and a rug that is a light color.

I need ideas and suggestions if i can get them! Also tell me what you think.

(should i paint the wood floor blue like hollister stores?)
I have decided i’d like to redo my bedroom in the early part of 2009. I have money saved up *around 300 bucks*

My room has high ceilings 9.5 ft, and is 10.5 x 11.5 (small but thats because we had a bathroom put in on that level.

My ideas——–I’m trying for a hollister/beach feel

Walls: a dark, rich brown-chocolate color
Trim, door, window trim-pale blue color *like hollister floor*
Dresser and bookshelf are going to be painted a white/pale blue color
Bedspread and pillows-white maybe
and then a leafy plant and a rug that is a light color.

I need ideas and suggestions if i can get them! Also tell me what you think.

(should i paint the wood floor blue like hollister stores?)

The room has 6 recessed lights with dim control. (wood floor is a definite "no" then, thanks for the advice)

Is there a safe way to run an electrical cord from a wall socket to a lamp in the middle of the room?

We are having new carpet installed in our family room next week. Is it possible to somehow run an electrical cord under the carpet to a reading lamp that is near the center of the room (about 5′ from the nearest wall socket)? Presently, the lamp cord is partially tucked under an area rug that sits on top of the carpet. But we plan to get rid of this area rug once the new carpet is laid. We don’t want someone to accidentally trip over the cord.
I won’t give any "thumbs up" or "thumbs down" since I appreciate all answers–usually. :)

Helppp…what is this?

Please help i really need an answer?
first, im sorry for the length of this but i need to explain

okay so its like this

i dont know what it is but its definitly something…i will be walking and ill step on something (maybe like its a switch in eleveation like from hardwood to rug flooring) and lets say i touch it with my left foot, ill have to go back and touch it with my right foot…or ill walk by a mirror and ill look at my self and ill have to go back and look again a certain number of times (mostly 3, or 9, or some varient, idk why)…ill have to do all different things like this like go down steps touching each one twice and then repeat or something…and i know you are probably thinking its really wierd and im crazy but it gets really bad like ill be taking a test in school and sometimes cant finish fast enought becasuse of having to go back and erase something 9 times…i also have to re-go through info in my head evven if i know i understand it or like reread something even if it makes perfect sense…now i know your prob like "why not just stop doing it?" but i cant! and i get these wierd thoghts in my head, which i know are irrational CRAZY but it just happens…like if i dont go back and touch that with my other hand or something something really bad will happen which i cant resally explain..and i know its crazy and im definitly not like crzy or depressed or anyhting like that, i swear but i really need an answer because thisz has been happening for a while and i cant help it and i hate it and feel embarassed of it

i think my brotgher has sopmething like it but idk what it is…wheneever my mother sees me have to do something she will yell at me thaT im just copying him…but i cant be because how would i ahve any idea what he is thinking and i do it when im alone to and i hate it!!!

i also have like rountines that dont make any sense like before i go to sleep i look under the bed, touch a picture, switch the light and repeat 3 times…and if i dont bad things will happen, and know that they are irrational thoughts but if i dont do it i panic and cant explain the feeling in words, but believe me its HORRIBLE and prob one of the worst things ive expierenced in my life and it never goes away

please help and im sorry its so long

thank you

Any nice rugs anyone? need one for my bedroom? accesories given?

To start, I am 14. For 14, I have a sophisticated, yet fun and interesting style.
I would like some people to help me find some rugs that you thing would look good with the following things: (I have a long room btw, bout 19 ft by 13 ft)
mirror: http://www.decoruniverse.com/floor-mirrors/passport-accent-2508-butterfly-cheval-floor-mirror_g661116.html (the metal edge is actually quite dark, black ish, very pretty)
Colors: two shades of violet, the darker one is an accent color, couldn’t find a picture sorry, ceiling is very, VERY light gray
Bed/desk/dresser/desk chair: lea i room (http://www.bizchair.com/iroom-lea.html) it is the panel bed, all have blue accents
Molding: (color of outer frame) http://www.wildlifephotos.com/Shop-Our-Store/frames.php

Thanks in advance oh and I would like it to be fairly big cuz i’m rearranging my room so the bed is all the way on the far wall and i would like the rug to go under it about 1 foot. (if this is confusing don’t worry about it) Lastly please don’t say something along the lines of " well you can easily find some nice ones at target or overstock" because i have been looking i am looking for suggestions for SPECIFIC rugs.

p.s. i know you would think all these colors and furnitures would be mismatched but it’s not
thanks i like the shag rug but it’s in pheonix and the other one is the size of a door mat no offense. i also do not want a chair.

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